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Life is about creating yourself!

January 25, 2009

Yesterday, I had the privilege to hear a phenomenal inspirational speaker. Del Hargis, a transformational coach, was the guest speaker at an event I attended. His presentation moved me in ways that I haven’t been moved in quite awhile. I am still feeling the gratitude that has been coursing through me for hours now, because of the blessings I learned to recognize within my life, just by listening. 

He inspired me to remember that we have the power to create, not only our lives, but more importantly, ourselves. Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself!

Who do you want to be? You are not your past. You are not your “evidence pile.” You are not your results. You can create yourself anew in every moment. You do not need to be tied to a particular identity, although there are many who would want you to believe you should.  You do not need to do things in a certain way because that is how they have always been done. Uncommon people have two things in common; they make uncommon choices, and they empower those choices with uncommon action. 

How do you go about creating yourself differently?  You change your frequency to be in alignment with who and what you want to be.  Walden Pond

Your frequency is a result of the influences in your life, the myriad of conversations you have with others, and probably more importantly, yourself. Many of those conversations are unconscious, and the idea is to make them more conscious. Learn to recognize when you are being triggered by watching your moods and your emotions. These are excellent indicators of the conversations you are having with yourself. As Carl Jung said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”

Once you are more conscious of your thoughts/conversations, you can be more aware of the underlying belief that is giving rise to a certain emotion. The emotion gives rise to action which produces results. If your unconscious conversations are in a lower, negative frequency, then your results will mirror that frequency. Raise your frequency, and you will get higher, more positive results.

How do you do that? You read positive, inspirational books. You listen to positive, inspirational audios. You eliminate negative influences as much as possible. You remain conscious of eating healthy food and exercising – taking care of your body, your vehicle in this life. And you get help to stay on track. You hire a coach.

Remember, no matter what life is handing you, as long as you have a pulse, you also have the ability to change it, and yourself.

Joseph Campbell said, “The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty YES to your adventure.”

YOU are a courageous, inspirational, loving being of light! Say YES to your greatness. The world is waiting for you. 



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